I Spent Years Taking Care of Everyone Else - Then I Remembered I Deserve To Feel Good Too...

I Spent Years Taking Care of Everyone Else—Then I Remembered I Deserve To Feel Good Too…

Let me ask you something.

 

When was the last time you did something just for yourself?

 

I had officially entered my I-Am-Exhausted Era.

Just for you.

But then I tried Sona - a toy actually designed by women, for women.

If you have to think about it for more than five seconds, we need to talk.

Because for years, I was the Queen of Taking Care of Everyone Else—which sounds noble and all, but let me tell you…

👸🏼Queens need pampering, too.

When Did “Me Time” Become a Thing of the Past?

I don’t know exactly when it happened.

Maybe somewhere between packing lunches, folding laundry, and pretending to be interested in my husband’s latest fantasy football disaster.

But one day, I woke up and realized: I had completely forgotten about myself.

And don’t even get me started on romance. 

My idea of a steamy night was falling asleep on the couch watching crime shows. 

But one night, as I sat in my worn-out robe (that, let’s be honest, had seen better days), I had a moment of clarity:

"What if… I just started treating myself like someone who deserves comfort and pleasure?" 

And so, I did.

The First Thing I Did? Upgrade My Self-Care Game.

Now, before you imagine me running off to some luxury spa retreat (which, let’s be honest, sounds amazing)....

Let me tell you—this was NOT some extravagant overhaul.

It started small.

I bought plush, actually-soft towels instead of the scratchy, lifeless things I’d been using since 2003.

I got myself a silky robe that made me feel like a rich housewife from a soap opera.

I even upgraded my bath situation with candles, bath oils, and—get this—zero interruptions.

Because Guess What? Passion Doesn’t Expire.

I used to think that feeling sexy and confident was something for twenty-somethings who still have the energy to wear heels.

But I was so, so wrong.

Because the moment I started prioritizing my own pleasure—whether it was with a luxurious skincare routine, a bit of self-pampering, or (let’s be real) a game-changing pleasure toy—something shifted.

And let me tell you… That energy? It’s contagious.

You Deserve More Than The Bare Minimum

Listen...

If you’ve spent years putting yourself last—thinking comfort, relaxation, and pleasure are nice-to-haves instead of must-haves—I’m here to tell you:

💖 You deserve better.

💖 You deserve softness.

💖 You deserve to feel pampered, relaxed, and completely, gloriously satisfied.

And trust me—once you start? There’s no going back.

See How SONA Can You Find Yourself