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6 Tips To Bring The Spark Back To The Bedroom
Sex is an important part of our lives and sadly, there are still plenty of taboos and misconceptions around various aspects of – including how to bring the spark back into the bedroom. This means that some elements of our sex lives are wrongfully not spoken about enough. This doesn’t help anyone and can lead people and couples to thinking something is “wrong”. Spoiler alert: it’s not.
How to bring the spark back to the bedroom is one such topic which tends to get a lot of negative press. Claiming that those without the spark might not be trying hard enough or it’s simply the end of the road for that relationship.
What people fail to realise is that life is a rollercoaster, which will ebb and flow and knock you about (pun intended) every which way possible. Relationships can be similar, as life and priorities change.
Losing the spark in the bedroom shouldn’t be seen as a problem to panic about; just a natural part of life and relationships that needs to be worked on.
1. Communicate with your partner.
Effective communication is incredibly important in all aspects of your life in the bedroom. You’re not mind readers – so you’re going to have to talk to each other eventually.
Start a conversation but don’t make the occasion too formal – this isn’t Bridgerton.
2. Make a list.
This is a fun way to get the imagination going for both of you which could help spark that conversation and take you one step further to reigniting that bedroom passion.
All it requires is that both of you make three lists, one of things that you’d like to try in the bedroom (perhaps something you’ve never done or rarely do), one of things you might consider trying and one of things which are totally out of the question.
Come together and compare your lists, focus on everything in those first two and that gives you a great starting point!
3. Introduce a toy.
Introducing toys into the bedroom to help bring the spark back is a great option and should certainly not be seen with any shame or embarrassment. Toys aren’t there to replace your partner’s touch or body parts, they’re available as an extra, exciting addition to your bedroom play time.
The VIVA Collection has all the vibrators you need for powerful and intense orgasms, perfect to use on your own to get you in the mood or with a partner.
Allow your partner to use the toy on you or watch you use it can be very exciting and instantly get the juices flowing.
4. Establish where the problem lies.
Knowing how to bring the spark back spark back in your relationship and into the bedroom will vary from person to person, couple to couple. And there are a ton of reasons why the spark might be lacking, so establishing this issue is a great step to getting the spark back. You can’t find it if you don’t know where it is!
Perhaps it’s a simple case of you’re both too tired from full-time work or looking after a baby. Or maybe it’s something deeper, like self confidence issues. Whatever the reason, there’s a way around it.
5. Make the build up a priority.
Let’s call a spade a spade, sometimes when you jump into bed, you just want to go asleep. It’s difficult – especially for those with a vagina – to just be in the mood instantly. So for this, you might want to prioritize the build up more than the sex itself. Go on a romantic date, dress up, enjoy each other’s company and see where that leads you.
6. Set the mood.
There’s no wonder you don’t feel like having sex when your environment itself is hugely un-sexy. Take some time to nurture the space you’re using to get it ready for sex. Tidy up, light some candles, set the mood – it doesn’t take long but can have the greatest effect
We suggest using the Senna, to help get you in the mood. Senna is designed with 10 different setting to start off light and build up with you.
You can use Senna anywhere on your body. This is a 2 in one that has active suction technology.
With a few small efforts, your relationship will be bouncing off the walls with spark again.
Are you ready for bedtime? What gets you in the mood?
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