Understanding Sexual Changes in Later Life
As we age, our bodies change. For women over 60, these changes can affect how we feel about sex. But don't worry - it's normal and doesn't mean your sex life is over!
Sexual Wellness for Women Over 60: Key Points
- Sexual activity and satisfaction remain important for many older adults
- Body changes are normal and don't have to limit sexual enjoyment
- Regular sexual activity is linked to better physical and mental health
- Many tools and products are available to enhance sexual pleasure
- Overall health impacts sexual wellness - staying active is important
- It's never too late to explore sexuality and intimacy
- Open communication with partners and healthcare providers is key
- Positive attitudes toward sex and aging can improve sexual experiences
Here are some common changes:
- Vaginal dryness (don't worry, there are solutions!)
- Less desire for sex (but it can come back)
- Taking longer to get aroused (more time for fun!)
- Changes in how orgasms feel
These changes don't happen to everyone the same way. They don't have to stop you from enjoying sex and intimacy. It's just part of getting older, and there are ways to deal with it.
The Benefits of Staying Sexually Active
Keeping up a healthy sex life as you get older has some great benefits:
- Better mood and less stress
- Stronger bones and muscles
- Better sleep
- Closer bond with your partner
- Boost in self-esteem
Plus, it's fun! Sex and intimacy can bring joy to your life at any age. Research shows that an active sex life can help you feel better overall and even live longer. It's not just about physical pleasure - it's about feeling close to someone and feeling good about yourself.
Overcoming Challenges to Sexual Wellness
Feeling nervous about sex as you get older? You're not alone. Here are some common worries and how to deal with them:
- Health issues: Talk to your doctor about how to stay safe and comfortable during sex
- Body image concerns: Focus on how your body feels, not just how it looks
- Lack of a partner: Explore self-pleasure or consider dating if you're interested
- Communication troubles: Practice talking openly with your partner about your needs and desires
It's okay to ask for help. Sex therapists and doctors can give great advice for staying sexually healthy as you age. Many women find that dealing with these issues head-on leads to better sex as they get older.
Exploring Pleasure: Tools for Sexual Wellness
Want to try something new? Here are some fun tools that can help boost your sexual wellness:
The Milana ($99.00) is a small clitoral stimulator that's great for travel. It uses gentle suction to provide pleasure without direct contact. You can choose from 7 different levels to find what feels best for you. It's especially good if direct touch feels too sensitive.
The Sylas ($92.00) is fun for couples. It's a vibrator that can be controlled by a partner, which can make things more exciting. You can use it inside or outside your body, so it works for different preferences.
Comfort is Key: Lubricants and Accessories
As we get older, our bodies might need some extra help to stay comfortable during sex. That's where lubricants and accessories come in handy!
VIVA's water-based lube ($14.00) is made especially for older women. It's gentle and lasts a long time, making sex more comfortable and fun. Using a good lube can really help, especially if you're feeling dry down there.
The sex cushion ($49.00) can help you find comfy positions during sex. It's a simple tool that can make a big difference in how you feel. This is really helpful if your joints hurt or it's hard to move around.
Keeping It Clean: Hygiene for Sexual Health
Taking care of your sexual health means keeping things clean. Here's a helpful product:
This clean spray ($15.00) is great for keeping your sex toys clean. It's easy to use and helps keep everything hygienic, which is really important for your health. Cleaning your toys regularly helps prevent infections and keeps them working well for a long time.
Exploring New Sensations
You can always try new things, no matter your age! Check out these exciting products:
The Senna ($88.00) is a clitoral stimulator that's very quiet. It's perfect if you want to be discreet. It has 10 different levels, so you can find what feels best for you. It's great if you live with other people or just like to keep things private.
The Donna ($157.00) can stimulate both inside and outside at the same time. It has 9 different settings and comes with a remote control, so it's fun to use alone or with a partner. This toy lets you explore different types of pleasure, which can be really exciting if you're rediscovering your sexuality later in life.
Embracing Sexual Wellness: A Holistic Approach
Sexual wellness isn't just about sex toys and lubricants. It's about taking care of your whole self. Here are some tips:
- Love and accept your body
- Stay active with exercises you enjoy
- Eat healthy foods to keep your energy up
- Find ways to relax and manage stress
- Keep your mind active with hobbies and learning
Remember, sexual wellness is part of your overall health. Taking care of yourself in all areas of life can boost your sexual health too! Staying active, eating well, and managing stress can all help you enjoy sex more. Doing things you love and learning new things can make you feel more confident, which often leads to better sex too.
Wrapping It Up: Celebrating Sexuality at Every Age
Let's recap what we've learned about sexual wellness for women over 60:
- Body changes are normal, but they don't have to stop you from enjoying sex
- Staying sexually active has lots of health benefits
- There are many tools and products to help make sex more comfortable and fun
- Taking care of your overall health can boost your sexual wellness
- It's never too late to explore and enjoy your sexuality
At VIVA, we believe that sexual wellness is important at every age. That's why we offer products designed specifically for women over 60. Check out our collection of vibrators for women over 40 to find something that works for you.
Remember, your sexuality doesn't have an expiration date. Embrace it, explore it, and most importantly, enjoy it! Celebrating your sexuality in your 60s and beyond can be freeing and fun. It's a chance to rediscover yourself, feel closer to a partner, or simply enjoy the pleasures your body can experience. Don't let anyone tell you that you're too old for great sex - you're not!